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How could this have happened to you?

Surviving an affair is not something that is comfortable, familiar, or second nature. Overcoming infidelity can feel very much like moving to a foreign land and not being able to speak the language.

You have questions that need to be answered, and you want to find peace. You don't want to fight endlessly about it until the early morning or lose sleep over who was really at fault. You would like to fix what was broken in yourself and within your relationship in order to save your marriage, but to be honest you don't think you are the only one responsible for the damage. You are not even confident that a marriage can overcome an affair.

How do you forgive infidelity in marriage? Take some time to consider all of your options and hold off on making a permanent decision for now. You can be uncertain of what you want to do moving forward. You don't need to pretend to know what's going to happen. Being in a relationship always involves risk – the risk of getting hurt, of feeling alone even when you're with someone, of being unsure, of hurting someone you love. Do yourself a favor and make a conscious effort to sleep on it and not stress right now, and allow the aftermath to play itself out organically.

In the morning, talk to someone who has years of experience in marriage counseling and saving a marriage after infidelity. For more than thirty years, Dr. Fibus has helped couples realize there is more to gain than to lose with his help. No one can make the choice for you, so this one is all yours. To get the information you need and come to an informed decision, fill out the form above to contact Dr. Fibus. You will get a free report on how to survive an affair to start you off.


What now?

Your partner has had an affair, and the pressure of having to make the decision about what happens next for your marriage feels overwhelming and impossible.

Infidelity doesn't always look the same in every situation. There are different types of infidelity, such as emotional infidelity, as well as more than one definition.

Having to figure out what went wrong within the relationship and where to go from there is terrifying. You want to look at the relationship from a fresh perspective and dissect it honestly in order to understand how you can feel less shaken about the betrayal and more confident about yourself again, but it isn't that simple. Learning how to forgive an affair is a challenging trial that can't be done alone.

To figure it out, you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable in a state of confusion. Therapy allows you to consider all of your options when you have more than you know what to do with. It pushes you to make choices and decisions for the sake of yourself, your partner, and your relationship. It's okay to not know what to expect. Surviving an affair is possible, but it takes great work from both people and the guidance of an experienced marriage counselor.

Make the decision to make the best choice for you. Take some time to think about how you can benefit from therapy and from working on your relationship.

An affair is no reason to end a relationship – instead, it is a clear sign that it is time to seek therapy and work on strengthening your relationship with the person you care about. Dealing with infidelity and forgiving an affair, whether emotional or physical, is always tough. You do not have to go through this alone. To start rebuilding, contact Dr. Fibus by filling out the form above. You can also request a free report on how to save your marriage after infidelity.


How do you survive an affair?

Waiting for your partner to forgive your infidelity might make you feel as though you have destroyed your marriage, and the look on your partner's face might send a chill down your spine. Your partner's endless questions feel impossible to answer, and no matter how many times you try to explain, your justifications do not reach their ears. You might feel as if you found love with someone else, or you might feel as though the affair was a one-time incident that just happened. Either way, your partner doesn't understand.

You built a great love with this person and that love has not evaporated because of the affair. Wouldn't it be helpful if you could communicate what was not right within your own relationship and overcome the guilt of infidelity? It's normal to want to make things right but not know how.

Honesty and open communication are needed to bridge the gap between you and your partner. Allowing yourself to be confused and vulnerable in a safe place can be productive for you, your partner, and your marriage. If you are wondering if it is possible to survive an affair, the answer is yes. Marriage counseling after infidelity can show you how.



Free yourself from the burden of trying to repair the relationship after the affair on your own. To figure out the next step, contact Dr. Fibus by filling out the form below. You can also request a detailed free report on saving a marriage after infidelity.

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